Cole Vasquez
Safety and health writer
Cole writes the parts about doing it safely: the risks worth knowing before you try something, the difference between a kink and a problem, and the point at which talking to a doctor or therapist is the sensible move. No scare tactics and no fake credentials, just the practical, boring safety a person actually needs.
Experience: Nine years covering sexual health and harm reduction for lay readers.
Writes on: safer exploration, risk-aware kink, consent basics, when to seek a professional
Elsewhere: X · Telegram · Instagram
Pieces by Cole Vasquez (39)
- Wet and Messy (WAM): What Sploshing Is and Why People Love It Encyclopedia
- Sock Fetish: What It Is and Why Socks Are a Common Turn-On Encyclopedia
- Smoking Fetish: What Capnolagnia Is and Why It Appeals Encyclopedia
- Scent Fetish: What Olfactophilia Is and Why It Appeals Encyclopedia
- Rubber Fetish: What It Is and Why the Gear and Weight Appeal Encyclopedia
- PVC Fetish: What Wet-Look Vinyl Is and Why People Love It Encyclopedia
- High Heel Fetish: What It Is and Why Shoes and Heels Captivate Encyclopedia
- Navel Fetish: What a Belly Button Fetish Is and Why It Happens Encyclopedia
- Lip Fetish: What a Mouth and Lips Fetish Is and Why It's Common Encyclopedia
- Inflatable Fetish: What It Is and Why Inflatables Appeal Encyclopedia
- Leg Fetish: What It Is, Why People Have One, and How to Explore Encyclopedia
- Hair Fetish: What It Is, Why People Have One, and How to Explore Encyclopedia
- Furry Fandom and Fursuits: Beyond the Furry Fetish Myth Encyclopedia
- Giantess Fetish and Macrophilia: What the Size Fantasy Is Encyclopedia
- Exhibitionism Kink: What Consensual Exhibitionism Really Means Encyclopedia
- Free Use Kink: What Standing Consent Actually Involves Encyclopedia
- Cuckold Kink: Cuckold, Cuckquean and Hotwife Explained Encyclopedia
- Breeding Kink: What It Is and Why the Fantasy Appeals Encyclopedia
- Boot Fetish: What It Is and Why Boots Carry Such Authority Encyclopedia
- Uniform Fetish: What It Is and Why Uniforms Are So Charged Encyclopedia
- Body Worship: What Adoration Play Is and Why People Love It Encyclopedia
- Praise Kink: What It Is and Why Being Praised Feels So Good Encyclopedia
- Medical Play: What Doctor and Nurse Roleplay Is Really About Encyclopedia
- Food Play and Feederism: What Each Is and How They Differ Encyclopedia
- Degradation Kink: What Degradation Play Is and How to Do It Encyclopedia
- Age Play and ABDL: What It Is and Why It's About Comfort Encyclopedia
- Top Drop and Topspace: The Dominant's Side of an Intense Scene Encyclopedia
- Blindfold Fetish and Sensory Deprivation: A Beginner's Guide Encyclopedia
- Service Submission: What It Is and Why Some Prefer Tasks to Pain Encyclopedia
- Foot Fetish: What It Is, Whether It's Normal, and Why It's So Common Encyclopedia
- Latex Fetish: What It Is, and Why the Shine Draws People In Encyclopedia
- Primal Play: What It Is and How It Differs from Protocol D/s Encyclopedia
- What Is Subspace: The Altered State, Subdrop and Aftercare Encyclopedia
- What Is Edge Play: The Umbrella Term for High-Risk Kink Encyclopedia
- Corset Fetish: What It Is, the Appeal, and Lacing Safely Encyclopedia
- Blackmail Fantasy and Consent: Why the Material Is the Whole Problem Encyclopedia
- Pet Play: What It Is, and Why Pup and Kitten Play Appeal Encyclopedia
- Financial Submission: What It Is and Where It Stops Being Play Encyclopedia
- Financial Domination (Findom): What It Is and How It Actually Works Encyclopedia